“All the aspects for a healthy relationship packed into 1 program and achievable through individual effort. There is a lot to learn, no matter where you think you are in your relationship.”
Pieter & Colien
“Die spasie wat geskep is om openlik, eerlik en veilig oor sensitiewe en belangrike onderwerpe te kommunikeer was fantasties!”
Philip & Tessa
“Effective communication and meaningful discussions are essential for building lasting connections. I appreciated how the speakers and questions were all rooted directly in the Word.”
Ricardo & Leone
“When you look at your marriage the same way you look at Christ—with love, commitment, and reverence—divorce won’t even be a topic. You and your spouse will function in unity, just as we are called to live in unity with Christ.”
Quintin & Maycke
“This weekend gave us the tools and space to practise real conversations, which will make it so much easier to open up in the future.”
Andre & Sylcke
“For us, MIAB was eye opening to learn firstly, that our relationship/marriage is not about us, it’s about God, which actually relieves a lot of ‘pressure’. We learnt how to be intentional when having important conversations, and deciding beforehand that we won’t take offence, no matter how hard something is to hear. When facing problems – it’s not us against each other, but US + GOD vs the problem.”
Johan & Colleen
“We were excited about the marriage retreat as we got married during the lockdown period and did not have an opportunity to experience something like this. As we know Schalk and Barinda well we knew that this would be something very special, as we saw their relationship as an inspiration.
During MIAB we were so blessed by the quality time we, as couple, could spend together and also by the well thought through questions that we needed to discuss.
MIAB gave us a steady platform to start our conversations from and put us in a better position to plan ahead and make wise decisions.”
William & Corneli
“As an unmarried couple standing at the beginning of our journey together, Marriage in a Bottle (MIAB) resonated with us far more deeply than we expected. Though the name suggests it’s only for those already married, the weekend opened our eyes to the beauty of what God truly intended for relationships — not the fairy tales from movies, but the real, sacred design rooted in communication, understanding, and unity.
The experience was a weekend wrapped in laughter, joy, and the kind of unity that lingers long after the last goodbye. What more could we ask for? MIAB created something sacred: a space where hearts could be honest, fellowship could be real, and learning could take root. It felt like an invitation to grow intentionally and start laying the right foundation for a Christ-centered marriage.
Being surrounded by other couples — whether dating, newly married, or together for years — gave us the chance to observe, reflect, and have meaningful conversations about what truly matters. We saw the pillars that support healthy relationships and had space to reflect on our own values, dreams, and areas for growth. MIAB gave us the opportunity not just to see the depth and purpose of godly relationships, but to practice it, safely and honestly.
It was a haven — the kind of place where your guard drops quietly and you’re met with grace, warmth, and truth. We laughed (a lot), we learned, we connected, and yes… we went back for seconds without shame because the food was that good!
We left with our hearts full, our spirits encouraged, and a deeper sense of unity between us. If you ever have the chance to attend MIAB, don’t hesitate. No matter where you are in your relationship, there’s something here for you — you just have to show up.”
Brady & Nadia
“Great for engaged or soon to be married couples and definitely not only for married couples. It gave us great insight as to where we are in our relationship and showed us we are actually much better off than we thought. “
Emile & Alexis
“It was an amazing experience and the environment created a safe space for me to be open and honest with my wife in a way that I haven’t been able to in years. Thank you. MIAB is awesome for couples and marriage. “
Stefan & Theresa
“Really well put together. A safe space was created where we could just speak openly, honestly and speak to each other without any pressure or stress. We spent time together where we could just realign and make sure we are still on the same page. Environment was created so you could speak about your feelings, needs, wants with your spouse where they were open to listen to suggestions. Really, really recommend this to any couple, doesn’t matter how long you have been married, take the time and invest in yourself and your marriage by attending MIAB. It impacts the Body of Christ more than you realize. As someone who struggles to sit through conferences and seminars, this was a truly refreshing experience. We received practical tools, spent lots of time together as a couple, with fruitful outcomes. Highly recommend!”
Francois & Nina
“Elke paartjie in die huwelik of in proses om in die huwelik te tree kan hierdie gereedskap stel met vrymoedigheid in hulle lewens boksie inbou. This is a must for couples that has been married for quite some time.”
Johan & Marcel
“If you want to build a foundation, and get equipped to give your marriage the best possible chance of success you need this. “
Johan & Colleen
“This was a beautiful experience, filled with God’s presence. The peaceful surroundings allowed for peaceful and meaningful conversations. This allowed us the opportunity to regain perspective, focus on the most important and cancel out the noise. Also great to realize that we are not doing too bad. We strongly suggest couples to do this before and during marriage. “
Theo & Melissa
“Best investment in our marriage!
No pressure environment, quality time with each other and simply a great environment and spirit filled atmosphere that enables open conversations. Great learning and self-exploring experience. “
Jacques & Lise-Mari
“Best investment of time after 16 years of great marriage. Now it is even better and stronger”
Dirk & Helaine
“It is such a great experience to learn about each other. Everything was so well done. I would’ve stayed another week and continued.”
Michael & Janè
“This is really a life changing time for couples to reconnect, refocus and find Christ in each other again.”
Brett & Lizette
“Hoogs aan te beveel, ook vir couples wat lank getroud isen dink daar is niks om uit te sorteer nie. As jy kans kry om hierdie kursus by te woon, doen dit!”
Pieter & Trudie